6 Reasons Why Women Should Masturbate

For centuries, masturbation was considered a “guy thing”. Only during the last few years women started to openly admit to playing solo themselves from time to time. 

However, sex therapists and doctors point out that indulging in a little self-pleasuring act can have real benefits both for a woman’s health and relationships. Sexual arousal and the orgasmic climax can have many benefits for the body as well as the mind. Here are six reasons why women should not feel ashamed or guilty for playing with themselves:

• Reaching an orgasm can offer pain relief

During an orgasm, a surge of oxytocin is released in the body. Oxytocin is a natural pain reliever, which can alleviate the pains and aches normally associated with PMS (but not necessarily) – such as cramps, back aches and migraines. Who needs Advil anyway when the alternative is natural and so much more enticing?

• Masturbation is a stress reliever and a cure for insomnia

Work, school, household chores, grocery shopping – a woman’s life is often too full for comfort. And when the night comes, you toss and turn in bed, unable to detach yourself from the day’s stress. Well – you might be pleased (pun intended) to know that by bringing yourself to a state of sexual arousal, you can put all that stress behind you and relax yourself. You might even fall asleep faster and rest better afterwards. 

When you have sex or masturbate, the body releases a surge of endorphins. The endorphins are the chemicals that make us feel happy. The most commonly known ones are Serotonin  and Dopamine. Endorphins can also help relieve stress, anxiety and depression. Aside from sex and masturbation, serotonin and dopamine production in the body is also triggered by eating chocolate or drinking alcohol. But we do believe that indulging in a midnight 500 calories snack should make you feel more guilty than the alternative.

• Get to know your body – hands-on

I guess this is self-explanatory, but we’ll give it a go. It’s simple: female sexuality was a taboo topic for centuries (if not millennia). Up until very recent times, the common belief was that women have no sex drive, that the female is just a vessel for male lust and that intercourse culminating in male ejaculation was enough to fulfill women's erotic needs. Now, thankfully, we know that is not true and we acknowledge female sexuality. But each an every one of us needs to learn hands-on (again, pun intended) what turns us on.

By masturbating, a woman can effectively discover her own body and learn about what turns her on. Masturbation is a great way to learn about your amazing body, discover which areas stimulate you and arouse you the most - be it the clitoris or the elusive G-spot. For the same reasons, sex therapists often recommend masturbation for women who have a difficult time reaching orgasm with their partner. It can help them learn about their body and feel less self-conscious.

• Playing with yourself improves your sex life

If you are able to make yourself climax through masturbation, than most likely you know what works best for you in terms of sexual arousal. And that’s a good thing. Now you can teach that technique to your partner. As a result, sex will be more fulfilling for the both of you: he will relish on the fact that he brought you over the edge and you will be grateful to him for offering you an earth-shattering orgasm.

On the other hand, masturbating is a great way to get in tune to your deepest fantasies. By focusing on the scenarios and thoughts that turn you on during masturbation, you can figure out how to translate those thoughts into passionate sexual encounters. Win-win situation!

• Knowing your body can improve your self-esteem and make you feel sexier

Let’s state the obvious: solo sex can offer pleasure, relaxation and it can alleviate stress. Just by that it can make you feel better about yourself. But that’s not all: by getting in touch with yourself, your body and your sexuality, you will learn to accept and love yourself more. And by feeling better about yourself and loving yourself more, you will feel more confident and act accordingly. And confidence is always sexy! Thus – a woman in touch with her sexuality is always sexy.

• There is no safer sex!

Masturbation cannot lead to pregnancy and you cannot catch any STD’s while pleasuring yourself – hello, Captain Obvious! Masturbation has often been mislabeled as wrong or shameful. But we cannot fathom why that would be so – especially for a woman! Sex is great – who are we to deny it! But masturbation is a great way to indulge in pleasure and sexual arousal without the risk of pregnancy or sexually transmitted diseases. 

 

New Way Of Bringing Back The Old Times Dates

Sometimes you think that you dates and the stuff that you were doing than vanish along time ago, just find yourself in the routine of every day like staying in the morning reading the newspaper and drink coffee... or  the same position over and over till death throws you apart ?
Hmm that’s the truth at least most of the married people or the ones who live together get at this point and they just keep on and enjoy that monotony … that for me looks pretty weird but I think I got some ideas for that to change. So let’s make things spice and more fun that’s the basic idea of a relationship to hold ! First thing that is coming threw my mind is the kitchen you can both experiment some new foods and cook them together , not just standing there and wait for the food to cook , also beside the food try some wines that will get things more interesting and the aroma to your life . Second idea to lazy to go for a walk , buy a dog you will get out of the house more often enjoy some fresh air together , explore nature together and your dog will love that , also you can both play with him like cache the ball or the Frisbee . This one is requiring simple planning like at least once a month make a trip some were there are many places that surround us with marvelous landscapes and we don’t know about it … explore them just the two of you discover things and make good memories that you will cross your mind every time you look at your traveling photo album ! Another physically idea sport or work out , go at the gym together or go jogging  together race your self and take the race further after a close shower . Or another one my favorite it’s surprising your partner simply by thinking about one thing that will make the time you spend just marvelous , like go some were enjoy the sunset together , have a wonderful dinner in a place that you never think about it , spend some quality time together in the most simple things just enjoy life and her small gifts that you can provide them and you have them.If you want something more spicy and to get the groove on fast fast you can watch some free porn and after that you can try what you’d seen .
Even if you are married have kids and a full time job you can do this things don’t be afraid of getting out of the monotony and think outside of the box ! 

 

 

People Bad Vision About Free Porn

Many people make a big fuss about free porn and porn in generally, on the Internet and off-line world. Why ? Because many people are watching porn and are afraid and ashamed about the fact their doing this and many almost daily do that. Truth is that the “society “ is very pretentious and the people from the society don’t do this … like really ? How you have kids ? Your not going to make sex … and kinky stuff … and everybody is living with the impression that is fooling everybody …. they just shut up and say that they never did anything related to porn or watch in their life free porn videos … and they are against it every freaking time . Why ? because is “ bad for the kids  “ ,”it’s disrespectful “ , “ it’s  obscene ,bad and they don’t want to see that “ see people just use tons of reason just because they are ashamed of it and don’t want to recognize a true fact , and they go rampage against something they like but is not accepted in the society …. Bad news for you dears “ porn haters “ Google really started a big campaign against you favorite website ( adult one’s ) so now you have to get the adult programs on the TV and block them for good and hope your kids wouldn’t find it . See you going to realize what mistake and consequence when you are and go against something you like very much . Hypocrisy is one of the most bad things that a human can develop because their aren’t open minded  and they are afraid and without personality to stand up for their rights and freedom of expression. This day’s it’s a big problem because what people made their going against it because they realized that is good to be fake and start a war against it to give no clues that you are really enjoying that. Also parents are so frustrated because their kids get in to the industry or jerk post movies with their experience on the Internet ok that I understand but is not every body’s fault here because you should fight against does guy’s and the websites that allows that type of content.  Not everybody is to blame for others actions and because they update it the right version to their hypocrite ideas and needs or jokes. Porn industry is not the best thing but you all enjoy free porn and other materials out there so you should be more honest with you and the rest because people that offer you that their paying and are destroyed by people like you.

Where Relationship Fail

Sometimes we think that everything is perfect and the best in a relationship, but we don’t see the times when things will go very bad. Blindfold  we walk this road till we get there , and you think what really happened that you get here in this moments. Relationships can have big fights and problems , that’s why you have to think about it , and be prepared because is going to hit you when everything appears perfect . Problems can come from everything like stupid reasons , or small mistakes … You can’t be perfect so take that in consideration before you go nuts and blame yourself. How you can work out your problems ? Definitely you can try to work it out ! Sit down with you partner  and try to talk about it ,see his point of view and hear what he has to say and after tell him what you think and try to make a decision related to what it has to be done to get out from this situation. Why I’m saying this? Because communication can save everything ! without communication there will sure be trouble and things that are let unsaid , in any moment will blow up and will be very hard to straight up or impossible some times because is just too late. If you are lucky some times you can solve this impossible things but nothing will be the same … Now your skating on thin ice , one mistake and you will fall ! So you have to be very careful with your actions.But  be prepared to  encounter the next problem that your partner will do mistake’s and will expect to forgive him for everything … don’t let that happen because things will turn bad , because his gone think that he is allowed to do everything he wants  and will “ mop the floor with you “ .  And you  don’t want  that …. If that is going to happen you have to abandon ship … because no matter your feelings and mistake’s  you don’t deserve to be humiliated and beaten-up sentimental like that …! So if you loose your girlfriend  or your boyfriend after a thing like this  don’t  start to worry and start isolate yourself from the rest of the world because are people there how deserve your love and your attention or there will always be free porn hahaha lol a joke ! Believe in yourself and keep going in life !

Food for sex

 

Sex is plastered everywhere this days.And any normal thing can get sexual connotations in the hands of some dirty little minds.Even food has not escaped the sex wars.Even eaten a banana in public and not felt all the eyes on you?

That’s because we tend to see some foods as sexual hints and jokes.But did you know that some foods can actually help you sex life?Not only being a kinky object  but as a perfect diet plan for a hot steaming night.

So, choosing the right food is not only important but will increase the before and after effect of your sexual encounter.

Some veggies and fruits have very special aphrodisiac proprieties and eaten in the right dosage, they will help your lover to reach a faster orgasm, or prolong the sexual act itself.Greens like ginger, corn, fresh salads, carrots and cucumbers will make you wild and horny after a light meal.But things like potatoes, especially chips or crisps are very bad for you mood.
Or try some fruits like cherries, figs, grapes and lime.Need a fast energy booster? Try eating some freshly cut slices of papaya or avocado.

Also in the kinky category of food you will find berries like raspberries and last but not least strawberries.Try eating them in bed or just toying with them and adding some chocolate!And if you and your lover are nuts about nuts, then the best ones are from the country that give to us the miracle of Brazilian waxing.

Last on the list is the most powerful sex food ever invented.Chocolate can be served cold or hot, in chunks or melted and poured on your lovers body.It is said that dark chocolate in particular will boost your desires and help the blood flow faster in some special places.

So if you are either a vegan or a chocolate addict, what ever your poison may be, you surely have a lot of things to choose from.And if you still need some hints about what to do, try searching the web for some free porn movies in witch food is the primary subject of some bad girl’s desires.

The Yaoi world

Have you heard about Yaoi and pondered all day what it means?Have you stumbled upon a yaoi anime and felt like you didn't understand what was happening? This is a simple guide to the fascinating world of yaoi, that will tel you all you need to know about this amazing Japanese theme.
But if the idea of the romance stories between to guys repulses you, please stop reading and search for something that you will enjoy.

Many people how interact in a way or another with the Japanese culture find it at first glance a bit weird.Many of the movies and animations, characteristic in Japan and Asia are so different from those in European or American countries that to some may appear odd or even disturbing.
But when you try to cross to barriers of culture, you will find Japanese anime and manga as being more fun to watch and read then any other animation or comic books in the world.

Yaoi, also known as Boy Love or Boy on boy action is a Japanese term used to describe an anime or manga with a homoerotic or homoromantic male relationships.Being female oriented, this kind of stories can be seen as a way girls can satisfy their desires of romance by watching love between to boys.
Usually in Yaoi, girl characters are seen very little and do not hold big roles in the story's ark, or if they do they either are a villain character or soon die, leaving the leading roles to be played buy men.
Maybe men is not the right word considering the fact that in yaoi, usually the characters are adolescent or young males, fresh out of puberty.Some of the stories feature idealistic love set in a romantic setting, but others address more problematic subjects such as acceptance, rape or society mistreatment.

In a yaoi anime or manga the couple is made form a seme (attacker) and a uke (receiver).This names originate from the martial arts and transcended to the gay and became the way to distinguish the partners.The uke is the receptive partner in anal sex.
In a manga or anime the uke looks usually more feminine and has softer features, almost always being characterized by the younger age or shorter height, him being the dominated personality.A uke is more likely to display feminine reactions and feelings, like crying or sharing the sentiments of love.

I've heard a lot of people saying that yaoi is Japanese porn videos, but they are making a big confusion.So, let's make things clear.
Hentai is the type of anime or manga witch consists from pornographic stories and less romance.There are some types of hentai that include boy on boy materials, but this should not be mixed up with yaoi, witch are more inclined on romance.
Sure, it displays some sexual activities, but many of them are not as graphic as a hentai sex scene.Usually the partners are facing each other, rarely preferring the game of domination of going from behind.

So, I hope I've changed your opinion about yaoi and now maybe you'll want to watch one :D

If you still have questions about the subject, feel free to comment and ask.

My Valentine's day rash

Marketing love at every street corner.Selling fluffy love symbols, and sweets that show affection on a wrapper.Feeling like s#$%%t when you don’t have someone to spend this day with.You’ve guess it, it’s Valentine’s Day everybody!
And as hard as I can concentrate, I can’t find a good thing about it.I really can’t.
Shouldn't we show our love each and every single day of the year? Shouldn't we give gifts when we like and buy silly presents when you feel like?
So way the hell do we need a Valentine’s day?

I’ll tell you way.Because stores can’t keep all year long an aisle full with read fluffy crap.They can’t sell love every day of the week.They need schedules, and buyer patterns and a time frame in which people would need certain products.
Just think of all the shops on Christmas or Easter.Think of the busy aisle of the malls on Thanksgiving.Or just imagine the special places opened only in the summer, where you can cool off with a good ice cream and a freshly squeezed ice cold juice.

They had to fit love somewhere.So they choose February as the month of love.Why this special month?
Because in the beginning of spring, people are feeling depressed.They are trying to find a place in the world that’s constantly evolving.They will feel the need to share some part of them with others.They will feel the desire to express some form of love.
So Valentine’s day was born.

Really people? I would rather get the day off, sit at home and watch a free porn movie while masturbating.I will prefer to be left to my own business and get no disturbance in a day where love is in the air.It’s not because I have something against love, but because I feel that Valentine’s day is fake.Is as plastic as the heart shaped toys sold in China Town.

So this year like in all my adult years, I’ve got a terrible rash and I couldn't get out of my bed.
Not one date, not one drink.I stayed in bed all day long and worked on my writing.And of course, taken care of my awful irritating rash.I call it the Valentine’s Day rash.Though, you could probably use this excuse on anything, transforming it into : The Christmas-family-dinner rash,
The Not-ready-to-meet-your-parents rash and another of my favorite ones, The I-was drunk-that-day-but-not-now rash.

But you guys, if you really need to schedule your love making and present giving, have a happy Valentine’s week!